You have to be intentional about the person you are dating or the person you are about to get into a long term relationship with. When people very often give us cues about their communication styles, their relationship ability, how they feel about their space and even their need to not be monogamous, listen. Digest. Process how they make you feel. Do you share the same values, principles and morals. Are sharing these things important to you and not them? Or important to them and not you? When yo