Remember what dating actually felt like: At the beginning, dating felt easy. You paid attention. You were curious. You made an effort. Somewhere along the way, many couples stop dating and start coexisting. Here are some things couples need to actively do to bring the relationship back to life: • Separate “relationship time” from daily life Time together isn’t automatically quality time. Create moments that are only about connection, not problem-solving or planning. • Regulate before you connect