Before you spend on a wedding, make sure you’ve built a marriage. Because these days, weddings cost more than some people’s first homes. But love isn’t measured by centerpieces or seating charts, it’s measured by commitment. Anyone can say “I do.” But not everyone is willing to say “I still do” when things get hard. Marriage is the work that starts after the vows. It’s the quiet mornings after arguments. The forgiveness that doesn’t make the highlight reel. The teamwork when money’s tight or lif