DEAR ABBY: I’m in my early 30s; my husband is 46. We have been married three years. He has a 24-year-old daughter, “Kiki.” Kiki has always been spoiled and catered to; she learned how to lie and manipulate during her childhood.

I’m in my early 30s; my husband is 46. We have been married three years. He has a 24-year-old daughter, “Kiki.” She has always been spoiled and catered to; she learned how to lie and manipulate during her childhood.

I have tried to help her because I believed his family when they said she’s trying to get it together. Kiki has a DUI, and she got evicted when her parents asked her to pay her own rent, rather than having them pay.

The 24-year-old wrecks her cars, and leaves them, doesn't pay her rent or utilities. Isn't she too old for dad to pay for all this?

I’m in my early 30s; my husband is 46. We have been married three years. He has a 24-year-old daughter, “Kiki,” who has always been spoiled and catered to. As a child, she learned how to lie and manipulate.